December Come, Follow Me Resources

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It’s hard to believe it is the end of the year! I know some of you are looking for something Christmas-y to teach. I think the lesson on using our spiritual gifts is perfect for this! You could download the 5th Sunday lesson on Light the World and use elements from both to create a great Christmas lesson!

Here are the rest of the resources I gathered for December!

How can I invite others to come unto Christ? 

Get the handout.

How does Heavenly Father want me to use my spiritual gifts? 

Get the handout. 

How can I prepare to establish a Christ-centered home? 

Get the handout. 

What can I do to help new members of the Church? 

Watch the video about Georgia Elias and use the discussion questions on Life’s Journey to Perfection.

How can I help my less-active friends return to church? 

Bring some burned matches and ask your class if it is possible to light them again. Read more about this object lesson on Mormonshare. 

What is Zion? 

I really like these scripture quote and question cards. I think it’s always to good to teach our youth how to find answers in the scriptures.

How can I participate in the hastening of the Lord’s work? 

Sometimes, it’s really helpful to give my class a worksheet to guide them through the lesson. It keeps me from having to repeat the questions and it gives class members a place for taking notes, if they want to. These sheets are based on three conference talks in this lesson.

Want more ideas? See the December Combo Pack from The Red Headed Hostess, my Pinterest Board or join my Facebook group




November Come, Follow Me Resources

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From Why is work an important gospel principle? 

From How do I know if I am becoming converted? 

From How can I find solutions to my problems? 

Get All Three Handouts

Additional Teaching Ideas

What does it mean to be self-reliant?

I love these two study sheets about The Ten Virgins and The Parable of the Talents from The Red Headed Hostess. Sometimes it can really help with a discussion when our class has time to write their thoughts down before sharing.

Why is it important for me to gain an education and develop skills?

Invite some of your class members to come to class prepared to teach a talent or skill. Share some quotes on education at the beginning of class and ask what they have in common. Read the rest of this idea on Life’s Journey to Perfection.

Why does the Lord want me to be healthy?

Try this object lesson from MormonShare. Bring water, soda and a plant with you to class. Tell you class your plant needs a drink. Read the rest of this object lesson here. 

What is the Lord’s way for providing for the poor and needy?

The Things I Love Most made a handout from the hymn, Have I Done Any Good in the World Today. You can get it here.

Need more ideas? Check out November’s Combo Pack from The Red Headed Hostess, my Pinterest board or my Facebook group


October Come, Follow Me Resources

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Becoming more Christlike is always a great topic of discussion for the youth. I always love hearing what my class has to share about how they do this.

Lesson Handouts

From How Can I Become More Christlike? 

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From How Can I Learn to Be More Patient? 

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Additional Teaching Ideas

For How can I be more Christlike in my service to others?

Cut out a snowflake to demonstrate how sacrifice helps us to serve others. Read the instructions on Mormonshare.

For How can I learn to be more patient? 

I love these discussion pages from The Red Headed Hostess that cover 6 heroes from the scriptures that exemplify patience.

For How can I become more Christlike? 

All Things Bright and Beautiful has a self-evaluation for Christlike attributes that would be great for this lesson.

For Why is it important to be grateful? 

Challenge your class to keep a gratitude journal during the week. You can use this handout with some journaling prompts to help them.

Simply fill out the form on this page and I will send it to your email!

Need more ideas? Check out my Pinterest board, my Facebook group, or The October Teaching Packet from The Red Headed Hostess. 


My 3 Favorite Quotes from Come, Follow Me, March 2016

This month’s Come, Follow Me theme is my personal favorite! The atonement means so much to me. It’s taken on a new meaning, as I’ve been studying the lessons to prepare to teach. Three weeks ago, I had knee surgery. I was expecting it to be a fairly small deal. We were fixing one, maybe two things and I was told I would be able to walk right after my surgery. I woke up from surgery, facing a completely new set of circumstances.


The surgeon came in to update me on how the surgery went. He held up three pages of pictures of the inside of my knee and said, “Well, I found about five things to fix in your knee.” He proceeded to walk me through the pictures and explain everything he had done. Bottom line, one of the procedures would take 6 months to heal and I would be going home on crutches with instructions to bear 50% of my weight on my bad leg. It was way worse than I had expected and planned for.

I’ve found a great deal of personal peace and comfort studying about the atonement, especially how it can bring us peace during our trials. The quote from Sister Marriott stands out to me the most. “Yielded and still” has become a mantra for my recovery, as my pace has slowed both literally and figuratively. Slowing down is not easy for me. I don’t know yet what the Lord is trying to tell me, but I know there’s much to be learned from this experience. I know that I’ve been showered with tender mercies, like being in almost no pain. I’ve been healing and recovering quickly. My physical therapists say I’m ahead of schedule in my recovery. I’ve been blessed with friends and neighbors who brought me meals, visited me, checked on me and have given more than I needed.


As tough as it has been, and will be for a little longer, I already see that I will look back and see some really beautiful moments where I have felt the love of God, especially through my friends, family and neighbors.


How has the atonement strengthened you? 

8 Reasons Every Church Instructor Should Learn How to Teach Come, Follow Me

I’m in the beginning of my fourth year teaching Come, Follow Me and I’ve never regretted the changes the Church has made to the new youth curriculum. It’s completely changed how I see teaching in the Church and has helped me to serve my young women better. I find myself wishing that more people taught Come, Follow Me- style lessons. Here are some of the reasons I wish we taught this way church wide.

8 Reasons Every Church Instructor Should Learn How to Teach Come, Follow Me

  1. It helps the instructor focus on the needs of the students. We have the opportunity every month to get feedback from our class or quorum presidencies and parents about which lesson outlines are needed the most. If we are meeting needs, the students are more likely to be engaged in the lesson and not checked out on their phones.
  2. I learn more when I teach this way. Seriously, the answers that come from my young women teach me.
  3. It’s a great way to truly teach by the Spirit.
  4. You will be more focused on spiritual preparation. It’s the spiritual preparation that helps us gain the influence of the Spirit to help us teach. This is what helps us teach effectively and truly meet needs. It also helps us know how to handle questions and concerns that are raised in the course of the lesson by our students. You do not have to be a gospel scholar to be a great teacher.
  5. The discussions can be so much deeper. Have you ever walked away from a lesson wishing the instructor hadn’t ended the discussion so they could move on?
  6. You are free to cover as little or as much material as you feel is right for the lesson. It may not make sense to cover all of the Plan of Salvation in one lesson. It may make more sense to split it over two lessons and discuss it with more depth.
  7. The lessons always end with an invitation to act. We should be doers of the Word, not just hearers!
  8. Come, Follow Me is coming to all church organizations. The change could happen as soon as 2017. Wouldn’t it be easier to start learning this now?

Do you wish every church instructor taught this way? Why? 

6 Easy, No-Fail Ways to Release Control to the Youth

Many of us are control freaks. We’ve done all of this before and we know how to do it. We think it would be easier if we did it ourselves. It’s so much more work when the youth are in charge. What if they don’t follow through?

6 Easy, No-Fail Ways to Release Control to the Youth

Any of that sound familiar to you? Did you hear yourself in any of those statements?

If you did, you’re not alone and it’s not to late to make some changes. Here’s my list of easy, no-fail ways to release control of the youth programs to the youth.

  • Let them choose the themes for youth conference, camps, New Beginnings, Young Women in Excellence and anything else that requires a theme.
  • Pair a youth up with a leader to plan meals for camps and youth conference. They plan the menu and the leader takes them shopping for the food.
  • Ask your class or quorum presidency for feedback on which Come, Follow Me lessons they feel are needed the most.
  • Have the youth fill out the schedule for camps and youth conference. The worst that can happen is you will either run out of time to do the planned activities or you will run out of activities. These problems are easily solved by having the group vote on which activities are most important to them or by giving them some free time. You can also review the schedule with them before the event and ask them to add more activities or cut some activities out.
  • At the end of your Come, Follow Me lessons ask your class if they would like to spend another week on the same topic or move on to another one.
  • Have the youth start choosing the activities. You can start by giving them 3 or 4 options that are acceptable to you and then eventually move to purpose-based planning.

If this is something that is hard for you to do. I encourage you to choose one and try it out for a month.

What easy, no-fail ways have you used to release control to the youth?


Come, Follow Me Resources for January


Are you planning a lesson for January? Check out these lesson helps!

janquote3From Who am I, and who can I become?

jan2016quote2From Why is Jesus Christ important in my life? 

jan2016quote1From What do we know about the nature of the Godhead? 

Get all three handouts. 

Other Teaching Ideas

How can I know my Heavenly Father?

This illustrated learning sheet could work really well for youth who like visuals to help them learn. You can find it in the How can I know my Heavenly Father? teaching pack. 

What are the roles of the Holy Ghost?

Bring a couple of flashlights and use them to teach about how the Holy Ghost works. Read more on Mormonshare. 

Want more ideas? See the January Combo Pack from The Red Headed Hostess, my Pinterest Board or join my Facebook group


How to Prepare a Come, Follow Me Lesson Outline in 5 Minutes

One of the things I love about Come, Follow Me is how quickly my lesson plan comes together once I’ve finished studying. Most weeks, I’m able to put together a lesson outline in about 5 minutes. I think the reason that it works that way is that studying the lesson materials and praying about them and for the young women I teach is the most important preparation that I do.
With that in mind, I will share with you how I put my lesson outlines together so quickly.
First, I start studying for next week’s lesson at least a week before I’m going to teach. I pace myself so that I finish all of the lesson materials by the Saturday before my lesson. If you want some tips on how to study, take a look at my post How I Study for a Come, Follow Me lesson.
Second, I pay attention to which lesson materials cause you me to feel the Spirit the most. What thoughts go through my mind as I am studying? It might be good to write these down.
Third, after I have studied all the lesson materials, I review the lesson outline. I pay close attention to teaching suggestions that involve the materials that caused me to feel the Spirit the most. If none of the suggestions work for me, I use the link for more teaching ideas in the left sidebar. I’ve found those very helpful at times when I’ve been stuck with how to teach!
Fourth, I write my lesson outline. I always follow the same pattern: follow up on last week’s assignment, introduce the lesson, teach the body of the lesson, find out what other questions they have, ask if they would like to spend another week on this lesson or move on, and finally select an assignment for them to work on during the week.
That’s it, folks! I keep it really simple. I think it’s also important to remember that if you’re feeling unsure about how to teach or what materials to teach from that it isn’t possible to choose wrong! There are only good, better or best choices with these lesson outlines.
Now, I would love to hear from you. What is your process for preparing a lesson outline?

5 Steps to Teaching Young Women about Pornography

This month with Come, Follow Me, I felt strongly impressed that I needed to spend some time talking about pornography with the young women I teach. Not an easy task and especially sensitive with Beehives. I cared a great deal about getting this lesson right. I also felt that the best way to protect them is to teach them skills that help them to protect themselves. Sheltering them from this has the potential to do more damage than talking about it.


My goal was to empower them. Here’s what I did:

  • Contacted the parents of the girls I teach and told them I was planning on teaching a lesson that would cover the topic of pornography.
  • Asked for their thoughts and feelings on what their daughter might need to know about this.
  • Invited parents to be there for the lesson.
  • Taught the lesson with a focus on empowerment and that the atonement covers any sin we could commit or mistakes we can make. Repentance is always possible!
  • Followed up with a letter to the parents, letting them know what resources I used for the lesson and what resources are available to help them talk to their children about pornography.

What could have been an uncomfortable lesson turned out to be a very sweet experience. I think the thing that made the difference was the focus I placed on helping them to help themselves and how the atonement can help us, no matter what we’ve done.

Resources I used for my lesson:

True to the Faith: Pornography

Video: Pornography Addiction: Is there hope?

Video: What Should I do if I See Pornography?

Is this a topic you have discussed with your youth? How did it go? What did you find worked?

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5 Reasons I Love Come, Follow Me

Since the very beginning, I’ve been a huge fan of Come, Follow Me. It’s given me an opportunity to grow as a teacher in the gospel. This is my third year teaching it and it still hasn’t gotten old. Here are some of my reasons why:


  1. It’s completely adaptable to the youth you teach. You are free to choose the lesson outlines that are the most needed and spend as much time as you need to on each one.
  2. It helps create a sense of group.
  3. It empowers youth to find answers to their questions.
  4. Youth start teaching the way they’re being taught, with open-ended questions and lots of participation.
  5. Youth feel more comfortable sharing opinions and thoughts in class and quorum presidency meetings because they see that their adult leaders listen to them.

What do you love about Come, Follow Me?